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What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew

Sharon Saline

See the world through your ADHD child's eyes and help them succeed at home and school with connection, empathy, collaboration and consistency.

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What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew

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What's it about?

What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew (2018) helps parents see the world through the eyes of children with ADHD. Sharon Saline draws on interviews with young people and her clinical experience to explain the challenges these children face with attention, emotions, and organisation. She offers a practical approach built on connection, empathy, collaboration, and consistency to help children succeed at home and at school.

Key ideas

  • Children with ADHD struggle with attention, emotions and organisation, and seeing the world through their eyes helps parents respond with understanding instead of frustration.
  • Sharon Saline draws on interviews with young people and her clinical experience, so the advice reflects what these children actually say about their daily lives.
  • Her approach rests on four ideas: connection, empathy, collaboration and consistency.
  • The goal is practical: helping children with ADHD succeed both at home and at school.

About the author

Sharon Saline is an American clinical psychologist who specialises in ADHD, learning differences, and mental health in children and families. She works with families, schools, and professionals and speaks internationally about supporting children with ADHD. What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew is her best-known book.

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Who is What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew for?

It is written for parents who want to understand how children with ADHD experience the world. It is also useful for anyone helping these children at home or at school.

What is the main idea of the book?

Sharon Saline argues that children with ADHD do better when adults understand their challenges with attention, emotions and organisation. She offers an approach built on connection, empathy, collaboration and consistency.

How long is the Durar summary of this book?

The Durar summary takes about 15 minutes to read or listen to. It covers the book's main ideas on supporting children with ADHD at home and at school.

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