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The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down

Haemin Sunim

Pause, reflect, and reconnect with what truly matters through gentle insights on relationships, meaningful work, and finding inner peace in a fast-moving world.

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The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down

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What's it about?

The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down (2012) offers reflections and practical guidance for finding calm, clarity, and meaning in a fast-moving world. Haemin Sunim explores mindfulness, relationships, work, love, disappointment, and spirituality, showing how a restless mind can make life appear overwhelming. Through brief teachings and personal observations, the book encourages readers to pause, observe their thoughts without judgement, treat themselves with compassion, and give greater attention to the people and experiences around them. The English edition was published in 2017.

Key ideas

  • A restless mind can make life feel overwhelming, and slowing down helps you see it more clearly.
  • You can observe your own thoughts without judging them, which brings calm and clarity.
  • Treating yourself with compassion is part of finding inner peace.
  • Giving more attention to the people and experiences around you adds meaning to everyday life.
  • The same quiet attention can be brought to relationships, work, love and disappointment.

About the author

Haemin Sunim is a South Korean Zen Buddhist teacher and author known for making spiritual teachings accessible to modern readers. He studied at the University of California, Berkeley, Harvard University, and Princeton University, and received formal monastic training in South Korea. He also taught Asian religions at Hampshire College and founded the School of Broken Hearts in Seoul to provide guidance and support to people experiencing emotional difficulties.

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What is The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down about?

It is a collection of brief reflections by Haemin Sunim on finding calm, clarity and meaning in a fast-moving world. It covers mindfulness, relationships, work, love, disappointment and spirituality.

Who is this book for?

It suits anyone who feels rushed or mentally overloaded and wants gentle, practical guidance on pausing and paying attention to what matters. Readers interested in mindfulness and inner peace will find it most relevant.

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The Durar summary takes about 15 minutes to read or listen to. It gives you the main ideas of the book in English or Arabic, in text or audio.

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