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Talk

Elizabeth Stokoe

Decode the patterns that make conversations succeed or fail and communicate more effectively in work, relationships, and everyday life.

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Talk

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What's it about?

Talk (2018) reveals what really happens in everyday conversations, based on the scientific study of thousands of real recorded interactions. Elizabeth Stokoe shows how small choices of words, such as how we open a phone call or make a request, can change how people respond. The book offers practical insights for better communication in customer service, negotiation, medicine, and everyday life.

Key ideas

  • Talk draws on the scientific study of thousands of real, recorded conversations rather than on guesswork about how people communicate.
  • Small choices of words, such as how you open a phone call, can change how the other person responds.
  • The way you phrase a request can affect whether it gets a yes or a no.
  • The same conversation insights apply in customer service, negotiation, medicine and everyday life.

About the author

Elizabeth Stokoe is a British social psychologist and professor who studies conversation analysis, the science of how people talk. She has taught at Loughborough University and the London School of Economics and works with organisations to improve communication in real settings. Talk: The Science of Conversation is her first book for general readers.

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What is the main idea of Talk by Elizabeth Stokoe?

The book argues that small choices of words shape how conversations turn out. Stokoe bases this on the scientific study of thousands of real recorded interactions.

Who is Talk for?

It suits anyone who wants to communicate more effectively, whether in customer service, negotiation, medicine or daily life. It offers practical insights for work and personal conversations alike.

How long is the Durar summary of Talk?

The Durar summary takes about 15 minutes to read or listen to. It covers the book's main findings on how everyday conversations succeed or fail.

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