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Raising a Secure Child

Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper and Bert Powell with Christine M. Benton

Create a secure bond with your child through presence, empathy, and consistent care that nurture confidence and lifelong well-being.

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Raising a Secure Child

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What's it about?

Raising a Secure Child (2017) introduces the Circle of Security, a well-known approach that helps parents build a strong and trusting bond with their children. Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper and Bert Powell with Christine M. Benton explain how children need both a secure base from which to explore and a safe haven to return to, and how parents can respond to their needs without having to be perfect.

Key ideas

  • The Circle of Security is a well-known approach that helps parents build a strong, trusting bond with their children.
  • Children need a secure base from which to go out and explore the world.
  • Children also need a safe haven they can return to when they need comfort.
  • Parents can respond to their child's needs without having to be perfect.
  • Presence, empathy and consistent care help build a child's confidence and lifelong well-being.

About the author

Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper and Bert Powell with Christine M. Benton bring together clinical experience and writing skill. Hoffman, Cooper, and Powell are American therapists who developed the Circle of Security programme, which is used by professionals and families in many countries to strengthen parent-child relationships. Benton is an American writer and editor who specialises in psychology and health.

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Who is Raising a Secure Child for?

It is written for parents who want a strong, trusting bond with their children. It also suits anyone interested in child development and family life.

What is the main idea of Raising a Secure Child?

Children need both a secure base to explore from and a safe haven to return to. Parents can meet those needs through presence, empathy and consistent care, without being perfect.

How long is the Durar summary of Raising a Secure Child?

The Durar summary takes about 15 minutes to read or listen to. It covers the Circle of Security approach and its core lessons for parents.

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