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On Gaslighting

Kate Abramson

Recognise gaslighting, understand how it distorts identity and self-trust, and reclaim clarity, confidence, and faith in your judgement.

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On Gaslighting

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What's it about?

On Gaslighting (2024) examines a form of manipulation in which someone tries to make another person doubt their own perceptions, memories, and judgement. Kate Abramson explains how gaslighting works in personal relationships, workplaces, and institutions, and why it is a serious moral wrong. The book helps readers recognise the signs, understand the harm, and protect their confidence in their own thinking.

Key ideas

  • Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that tries to make you doubt your own perceptions, memories, and judgement.
  • It happens in personal relationships, in workplaces, and inside institutions, not only between two people at home.
  • Kate Abramson argues that gaslighting is a serious moral wrong, not just an unpleasant way of behaving.
  • Learning to spot the signs is the first step toward understanding the harm it does.
  • Protecting your confidence in your own thinking is central to recovering clarity and trust in your judgement.

About the author

Kate Abramson is an American philosopher and professor at Indiana University who specialises in moral philosophy and the history of ethics. Her research explores topics such as manipulation, moral emotions, and respect for persons. On Gaslighting brings her academic work to a general audience.

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What is On Gaslighting about?

On Gaslighting by Kate Abramson examines how one person tries to make another doubt their own perceptions, memories, and judgement. It explains how this happens in relationships, workplaces, and institutions, and why it is a serious moral wrong.

Who should read On Gaslighting?

It suits anyone who wants to recognise this kind of manipulation and understand its harm. It is also useful for readers who want to protect their confidence in their own thinking.

How long is the Durar summary of On Gaslighting?

The Durar summary takes about 15 minutes to read or listen to. It covers the book's main ideas on how gaslighting works and how to recognise it.

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