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William Ury is best known as a co-author of Getting to Yes, the book that taught a generation to negotiate by separating the people from the problem and focusing on the interests behind each side's position, and his work is worth your time because it treats agreement as something two sides build together rather than something one side wins. Start with Getting to Yes, since its practical method of inventing options for mutual gain, relying on fair criteria, and knowing your best alternative before you sit down will change how you handle your next difficult conversation, then move to Possible, where he widens the same thinking from the meeting room to the conflicts societies face. These summaries serve managers, entrepreneurs and anyone in the region whose work runs on trust and long relationships, from family businesses and government offices to the everyday disagreements that come with close-knit communities.

1Getting to Yes

Getting to Yes

Negotiate collaboratively by focusing on shared interests, creating win-win agreements, and achieving better outcomes without damaging relationships.

13 min

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What is Getting to Yes about?

Getting to Yes (1981) presents a method for reaching agreements that are fair and lasting without damaging relationships. Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton describe principled negotiation: separate the people from the problem, focus on interests rather than positions, invent options for mutual gain, and insist on objective criteria. The book also introduces the idea of knowing your best alternative to a negotiated agreement.

Who should read Getting to Yes?

  • Professionals who negotiate deals, contracts or salaries
  • Managers resolving conflicts without damaging working relationships
  • Anyone who wants fair agreements that actually last
2Possible

Possible

Expand your vision of what society can achieve through human potential, systemic change, and optimism grounded in reality.

14 min

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What is Possible about?

Possible (2024) shows how to handle conflict constructively in a divided world, from family disagreements to workplace tensions and international crises. William Ury draws on decades of experience as a negotiator to describe three victories: going to the balcony to gain perspective, building a golden bridge for the other side, and engaging the third side, the surrounding community. The book offers practical hope that difficult conflicts can be transformed.

Who should read Possible?

  • Managers handling tense disagreements within their teams
  • Anyone caught in a painful family conflict
  • Mediators and negotiators seeking fresh, practical approaches

About William Ury

William Ury is an American negotiation expert and co-founder of the Harvard Negotiation Project. He has advised governments, companies, and communities and served as a mediator in conflicts around the world. He is co-author of Getting to Yes and author of Getting Past No, The Power of a Positive No, and Possible.

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